In response to friends' comments that my blog is growing fungi, yes, I have dragged my fat arse to my lappie to start a new post. BUT, this arse is not lazy, this arse has just woken from a way too long bout of lethargy to throw itself back into life! & loving every minute of it by the way...

To loyal readers, I am so sorry for the lack of updates. Lack of discipline and stress do not make Selene a good blogger, wuahaha...

Well, I have set my mind down to writing a post at least once every 3 days for those of you who are interested in reading what I have to share. Although, my life is pretty boring compared to BFFs': No growing baby to document, no upcoming home renovations and no marriage proposals to look forward to, hahaha, you know who you are! Anyway, congrats, I'm just so happy for everyone around me, who have their dreams and wishes fulfilled.

Being away from my blog for so long means I have too many updates which have not been posted and suddenly, I know not where to begin. Suffice it to say, life has been a breeze. Not smooth sailing, but hell, at least I'm like LIVING. I've learnt to accept that life will never bring with it beds of roses all the time and well, I'll take life and whatever challenges it brings me. Having a broader frame of mind and accepting that things almost never turn out as expected usually helps too. Wah, like so zen hor?

I'm sure all of us have good times and bad times. But it's not what happens that matter, it's how you approach it that really makes you. It's always your choice. You can choose to bitch about something and feel bad all the time, or you can sit and cry, but why not choose to ride it out, and keep your spirits up? I think what I like about this is I HAVE A CHOICE, NO MATTER WHAT. I can choose what I wanna think, feel or say.

I say this is real SELF-EMPOWERMENT!!!